We (special needs parents) have all been annoyed, hurt, or angered by someone’s comments to us about our child. It’s usually someone well-meaning, and just absolutely unaware of Prader-Willi syndrome, or what it’s like to have a disabled child. We cannot expect others to understand or to know what to say or not to say. We must give them some grace. However, with that being said, I thought I would Continue Reading
Pretty On The Outside But…
Don’t judge us by our Christmas card. We look pretty perfect. Like the quintessential all-American family. Don’t we? The only thing missing in the picture is our adorable, chocolate labradoodle, Gracie, with a Christmas bandana around her neck. It’s a great picture, if I do-so-narcissistically-say-so myself, as the mother in this photogenic crew. BUT... Just because I know how to Continue Reading
The Burn
Inhaler of newborn smells I’m going to burn up this year. My favorite Equinox instructor (and my friend), Rebecca, always tells us, when we are dying in her hard-core fitness classes, that the burn means that change is happening in our bodies. We want that burn. We need that burn. Even if we are screaming and whining like little girls on the inside. She always reminds us we can do it and Continue Reading
That Post Christmas Blah
Some years it hits me. Some years it does not. On December 26th. Or even sometimes RIGHT after the Christmas morning of fun and frenzy and children's delights are all over. Even though I don't believe in Santa Clause or any Christmas magic per se, I have realized my adult self still has this longing and expectation at Christmastime. That somehow a special fulfillment will arrive on Continue Reading
Tales from the Toilet
I am literally sitting in my bathroom. And yes, I do keep little notebooks EVERYWHERE for when “aha-writing-moments” appear. Which is often, but I don’t always stop long enough to jot it all down. But, I digress. I am in here not due to tummy catastrophe but because a tantruming child is outside the door. He or she (I won’t give it away) is pounding on the door and apparently did not read Continue Reading
Jen Hatmaker Is My New Imaginary Friend
I have a crush on Jen Hatmaker. She is a new discovery to me. Writer, blogger, speaker, mother to 5 (she wins!), including two she adopted from Africa, and wife to Brandon Hatmaker. She lives in a city I would love to live in, Austin, Texas. Anyway, after reading her blog post that went completely and insanely viral, “The Worst End of School Year Mom Ever,” I was hooked. Because she’s my kind Continue Reading